From my heart to Ladies and Men:
I want to talk about ladies who choose to live with a man who is not their husbands and are vulnerable to all manner of hurts including domestic violence and even as worse as being used for rituals.
I don't in any way commend men who engage in this animalistic behaviour but they wouldn't have seen anyone to prey on except the ladies who made themselves preys. If you as a guy hit a woman, you're as good as a weakling! Fight failure and mediocrity, and not women!
We fight so much against domestic violence, but can we also channel some energy into instilling morality, self-worth and the fear of God into the minds of young ladies?
I remember a friend in our late teens who just disappeared for about a month. We were taking turns to pray for this girl. Eventually, she returned home but what was the story? She had traveled to live with her boyfriend in far north for weeks.
Imagine if she was murdered as is the case of many ladies today.
It's already enough that women are naturally weaker and more vulnerable, but to add to it by surrendering your life to a guy who isn't married to you is a big risk to your life and destiny.
The economy is not friendly, then you go and attach yourself to a guy who hasn't stabilized financially. What happens? He lacks the emotional maturity to handle pressures, especially financial pressures, and he looks for where to pour it out. And poor you, because you also lack the emotional maturity to know when to let a man alone, your mouth keeps wagging and the next thing, he hits you.
But imagine if you were in your parent's, personal or another female friend's house, would anyone had degraded you that much to have laid hands on you?
And then, he apologizes and you guys have a make-up sex and you exonerate him from his ill attitude by saying that it's just a weakness; he will change.
Just look at you, pretty! C'mon, you're more than this!
There's ASUU strike currently but some girls will refuse to travel home but would rather go and cohabit with their boyfriends, feigning that they're reading or "hustling".
Aunty, go home!
You're more valuable than what you're turning yourself into!
This is a message of deep love and concern and most times, when I get such messages, there's definitely someone who it is for.
So my darling, pack your things and go to your parent's or another girl friend's house. Or you stay back in the hostel, if it's accessible.
You're worth more than this, and your children would want to learn the right virtues from a mum who is living the life she would preach to them
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God bless you!
I love you!😘
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