ATTRACTING A REAL WOMAN (Part 2)

written by Esther Best Nwachukwu:

We've talked about what we'll see in a woman and we'd say that she's a Real Woman. The truth is that women with these qualities are very uncommon and will require a different approach to blow their minds away. If you're not convincing with clarity and evidences, you will lose her. You need to be intentional.

How can you ATTRACT A REAL WOMAN?

1. THINK REALITY and POSSIBILITY.

Reality makes you know that there are many fake girls in town, including your neighbours, but Possibility makes you believe that there are still ladies that are different... Women who have those qualities as described in the previous part.

What do you want to have in a woman as a wife, think about it and see yourself having a Woman who we call Complete package. You can have a wife who is diligent and sexy; it's not mutually exclusive. Believe you can have her and see yourself attract her. As a man thinks in his heart, so is he.

2. SPEAK about the Real woman you want to have. Don't join your friends to always generalize about how terrible women are. When they are saying that there's no submissive, loyal, homely, honest or faithful woman, don't champion it. No matter your experience, let your mouth speak the positives.

3. BECOME a REAL MAN. A REAL MAN WILL ATTRACT A REAL WOMAN. Don't look for what you don't have in someone else.

You want a focused woman, are you focused?
You want a woman who gives and is sacrificial, do you give and sacrifice?

You're a looking for a woman who is faithful (won't cheat, sexually), are you faithful? (Please, don't raise this notion of a man can cheat but a woman shouldn't. If you expect faithfulness from her, then she should also have a faithful man. That way, everyone is happy!)
You're looking for a diligent and responsible woman, are you diligent and responsible? Or you want to depend on her hustle and money?

Be That Real Man that the Real Woman won't have a choice but be Attracted to you! And will be compelled to submit to, because you're truly her Leader (not ruler or dictator).

4. ASSOCIATE with people of the same mindset and focus. Don't follow guys who believe that all women are there to 'chop' your money when you're looking for a Real Woman. Influence is very easy! Remember, as Iron sharpens iron, so a man sharpens (influences) the countenance (beliefs, focus) of his friend.

5. RIGHT APPROACH
Now that you're doing the aforementioned steps, ensure you use the right approach to get her to say Yes. Start with friendship and her interests. Remember, she's principled and focused; show her that you can be that Real Man she can always look up to. Follow her, in a slow but steady manner. Speak her love language and then, win her over. And of course, Pray continually! (I shouldn't tell you how to woo a woman. *Smiles*)

Your Real Woman is there waiting for you. Don't let her miss you for any reason! I hope to celebrate your beautiful marriage with you soon!

#Estyposh