Must You Marry (part 1)

I hear about shattered Marriages on the social media and I keep wondering where it went wrong for us as individuals and the society at large. These days, people take marriage as a big time achievement. The ladies try to make it their utmost big time goal in such a way and manner that they can even kill to get it. But I don't really think that it's a must to get married. Some people are not destined to marry. Jesus Christ said this in Matthew 19 vs 11 & 12 and I quote,

11-12 But Jesus said, "Not everyone is mature enough to live a married life. It requires a certain aptitude and grace. Marriage isn't for everyone. Some, from birth seemingly, never give marriage a thought. Others never get asked—or accepted. And some decide not to get married for kingdom reasons. But if you're capable of growing into the largeness of marriage, do it."

Marriage requires a certain kind of maturity and grace. It's something that is large. It's not something that you can easily comprehend. It has foundations that needs to be laid even from a very young age. It's not something you watch in movies or read from books alone. It goes well beyond that. If you want to do it the Christ Jesus way, then you would wanna prepare yourself well, attain a certain maturity before you even think of saying yes to that proposal. If you are not matured enough for marriage and you venture into it, then you are in for rough ride. If your foundations are not strong, when the time of testing comes, you will be shaken and shattered. It's not a must that you will marry but Jesus Christ said that when you have the Capacity to grow into the largeness of Marriage, you should do it. Marriage needs a certain kind of capacity to develop. If you don't have that capacity, please remain single than venturing into marriage and running out in just one year🤣🤣🤣🤣.

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