ATTRACTING A REAL WOMAN (Part 1)

Written by Esther Best Nwachukwu:

I have lots of male folks as colleagues and friends and when I listen to their ordeal about fake girls, I weep for my ladies.

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A guy invited a lady to come visit him in the office. She said that she had no t-fare. Uncle Kindness sent 4,000 naira to her and Aunty Beggar just replied: SEEN. No appreciation! Uncle swallowed the ingratitude and waves it off.

Piam, Aunty arrived with her majestic self and the discussion started. The guy wanted to ask her out that day because he really liked her. After a while, she said that she was hungry and he took her to a nearby eatery to also fulfil his intentions.
When she was asked to place her order, you can't believe what she ordered for... Food that only the gods of her village receive did she want to tuck into her flat tummy. At the end, uncle spent almost 10k just to see Aunty on ONE DATE. There and then, he made up his mind NEVER to call her again, talk more of asking her out.

And he asked me: ''Esther, how do I get a REAL LADY? I've had lots of fake girls around me for a long while now.''

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DEAR MEN, draw closer let me talk to you...

Before you talk of attracting a REAL LADY, what do you see in a lady and you call her REAL?

Is it a Lady with fair/dark pretty face, appreciable boobs and butts to make the beautiful curve, awesome make-up and attire? There are ladies with these features who are notorious in breaking hearts and shattering destinies!

Is it a Lady who you've heard testimonies of that she is very romantic with her words, looks, touches or even in good in sex? Some men dated ladies like these and discovered that they were the 4th on their list of mumu boyfriends. Na to just collect your money and vanish!

Is it a lady who allows you touch her and gives 'it' to you whenever you want it when you are not married yet? In fact, you're still saying, 'Let's just be friends to know each other' and boom, she's almost going nude. My brother, your strength will soon be wasted as you're giving away your sperm for nothing!

So, the question now is WHO IS A REAL WOMAN?

A REAL WOMAN is a woman who knows who she is, understands her place as a woman and is purpose-driven without dragging with anyone for their place!

A REAL WOMAN is a woman who respects humanity, both male and female, and doesn't use derogatory words or attitudes!

A REAL WOMAN is a woman who is balanced: homely and caring, while focusing on what the future holds for her life. She is not dependent on anyone. She rather believes in interdependence.

A REAL WOMAN is a woman who is confident but not arrogant, and is loyal but not timid.

A REAL WOMAN is a Woman who brings suggestions of growth and improvement to you. She suggests savings, investments, reading, going for courses, having good friends, going to Church and praying, etc... To you. Any woman that never thinks of your FINANCES, FUTURE (career, business, academics, vision) and GOD, run away from her.

A REAL WOMAN is not ashamed of who and where she is now and doesn't or is nor compelled by the social media to form who and where she is not. She doesn't take up a lifestyle that she needs to borrow, beg or sleep with men for money to maintain. She's SIMPLE BUT CLASSY! She's MODERATE but POSH! She's PRUDENT but ROYAL! She also doesn't make you feel bad about who you are... Never puts you under pressure to become who you're not or have what you lack.

A REAL WOMAN values Vision above Materialism. She upholds Character and virtues above Money.

A REAL WOMAN is diligent, has integrity and Disciplined, though she is funny and friendly also.

A REAL WOMAN brings real joy and peace to your heart. She brings favour to you also.

A REAL WOMAN is a woman who loves God and His children, and is committed to following what He says. She also prays for her friends and family, and of course, her Real Man!

So, now you know who a REAL WOMAN is, is it in synchrony with your perception and desires? Is that what you've been pursuing in Ladies? There are still Real women in our world and around you. In all your getting, get WISDOM today!

To be continued!

#EstyPOSH