After you have redefined who a real man is from my previous part on this series, then, you need to do the following...
2. THINK reality and possibility.
Reality says that many men are fake!
But possibility says that there still few who are REAL!
Reality makes you not to be oblivious of the fact that there are fake men, but possibility makes you Believe and Know that there are still some select few around you who are REAL! For as a (wo)man THINKS in (her)his heart, so is s/he! Think Reality, but more in POSSIBILITY!
3. Your thought-line (mindset) will always show in your WORDS, so SPEAK POSSIBILITY more than Reality. 'There could be a thousand and one fake guys in town, but I will attract and marry a Real Man!' 'God's gifts are beautiful and I will have one in a husband.' These should be your line of Words! Don't be carried away by the noise in the world; some women are still enjoying their marriages, and you can be one of them. Just SPEAK it!
4. BECOME who you want to attract.
Aha! This is where my single ladies miss it! Hanty, you want a Real Man but you're so materialistic, how will it happen? You meet a guy, all you trip for is his physique, Aba-designers watch, shoes, clothes and even motor-park-designers' hair-cut? His pocket is your major concern and his large dick you really want to feel; are you sure you know what you want, Hanty? Like attracts like, in relationship.
Now, we live in a world that many ladies are materialism themselves. You are fake, from your hair to toes... And you want to have Real men? He doesn't even know if you're a human being because your own ''ajebo'' and ''kilamiti'' pass ''mami-water''. Come down from cloud nine! The man is scared that he doesn't know ho you really are and can't marry such a person.
Be Real, my dear! Be You! If you like soaking garri, talk about it and soak it with pride. From time to time, I like to have swallow, but because of my job, i have to take it in the afternoon. Guess what! I take it in the office, proudly.
Don't borrow to appease a guy; if you do, you will continue that rat-race till her finds out and decides to call it quits.
A guy takes you out and you place orders for you and your unborn children. You demand for money as if you're a police officer. ''How far nau? You sure say you wan marry am, abi you wan milk am dry?'' You go to his house and all you wanna do is to have sex with him. I hail you, Queen of Food, Sex and money!
Let me ask you: Apart from your body and its supple parts, what else do you have to offer to make this guy love you, stick with you and marry you by all means? If you have nothing else (or have a fish brain like a friend calls it), then you will keep having loads of disappointments in men-figure coming to you.
WHAT YOU WANT TO HAVE IN A MAN; BECOME IT FIRST! You want a man who doesn't cheat, tell lies, break hearts etc, then, don't do them!
5. Who are your FRIENDS or members of your ASSOCIATION? Do you have friends who tell you to accept dates if the guy has a car and is lavishing stupendously on you? Or the type that lend you every single thing you wear just to go on a date? If your association is FAKE, then you will BEHAVE FAKE and obviously attract FAKE MEN! Simple logic!
So, do you want to have REAL men come to you for serious romantic relationship and marriage? Then, you have to THINK, SPEAK, BECOME and ASSOCIATE REALITY and POSSIBILITIES!
Have a Beautiful Valentine Season with A REAL MAN! If he's not, ''sack'' him and move on. Remember to keep sexual purity in mind; the world will not fall if you do!
#EstyPOSH
2. THINK reality and possibility.
Reality says that many men are fake!
But possibility says that there still few who are REAL!
Reality makes you not to be oblivious of the fact that there are fake men, but possibility makes you Believe and Know that there are still some select few around you who are REAL! For as a (wo)man THINKS in (her)his heart, so is s/he! Think Reality, but more in POSSIBILITY!
3. Your thought-line (mindset) will always show in your WORDS, so SPEAK POSSIBILITY more than Reality. 'There could be a thousand and one fake guys in town, but I will attract and marry a Real Man!' 'God's gifts are beautiful and I will have one in a husband.' These should be your line of Words! Don't be carried away by the noise in the world; some women are still enjoying their marriages, and you can be one of them. Just SPEAK it!
4. BECOME who you want to attract.
Aha! This is where my single ladies miss it! Hanty, you want a Real Man but you're so materialistic, how will it happen? You meet a guy, all you trip for is his physique, Aba-designers watch, shoes, clothes and even motor-park-designers' hair-cut? His pocket is your major concern and his large dick you really want to feel; are you sure you know what you want, Hanty? Like attracts like, in relationship.
Now, we live in a world that many ladies are materialism themselves. You are fake, from your hair to toes... And you want to have Real men? He doesn't even know if you're a human being because your own ''ajebo'' and ''kilamiti'' pass ''mami-water''. Come down from cloud nine! The man is scared that he doesn't know ho you really are and can't marry such a person.
Be Real, my dear! Be You! If you like soaking garri, talk about it and soak it with pride. From time to time, I like to have swallow, but because of my job, i have to take it in the afternoon. Guess what! I take it in the office, proudly.
Don't borrow to appease a guy; if you do, you will continue that rat-race till her finds out and decides to call it quits.
A guy takes you out and you place orders for you and your unborn children. You demand for money as if you're a police officer. ''How far nau? You sure say you wan marry am, abi you wan milk am dry?'' You go to his house and all you wanna do is to have sex with him. I hail you, Queen of Food, Sex and money!
Let me ask you: Apart from your body and its supple parts, what else do you have to offer to make this guy love you, stick with you and marry you by all means? If you have nothing else (or have a fish brain like a friend calls it), then you will keep having loads of disappointments in men-figure coming to you.
WHAT YOU WANT TO HAVE IN A MAN; BECOME IT FIRST! You want a man who doesn't cheat, tell lies, break hearts etc, then, don't do them!
5. Who are your FRIENDS or members of your ASSOCIATION? Do you have friends who tell you to accept dates if the guy has a car and is lavishing stupendously on you? Or the type that lend you every single thing you wear just to go on a date? If your association is FAKE, then you will BEHAVE FAKE and obviously attract FAKE MEN! Simple logic!
So, do you want to have REAL men come to you for serious romantic relationship and marriage? Then, you have to THINK, SPEAK, BECOME and ASSOCIATE REALITY and POSSIBILITIES!
Have a Beautiful Valentine Season with A REAL MAN! If he's not, ''sack'' him and move on. Remember to keep sexual purity in mind; the world will not fall if you do!
#EstyPOSH
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