One of the questions I keep hearing is: HOW DO I STOP ATTRACTING FAKE MEN, BUT REAL MEN?
This has been the worry of many ladies in our generation because it's as if being real has taken to it heels.
This post has the tendency of being long but stay tuned; you will enjoy it.
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I was in the office one day when two people- a gent and a lady- walked in. I welcomed them. They told me where they were from (another Physio Clinic) and how they've come to help me should in case I have any difficult case, I can refer to them. (Wawu! So, help has finally come to Jerusalem!) So I asked, what kind of conditions do you refer to as 'difficult', to begin with. They were struck with temporary spirit of stuttering. I asked one more question: ARE YOU PHYSIOTHERAPISTS? Then, they clearly replied NO and my education session with them commenced.
I had a client around, so I told them that their time was up. They thanked me and promised to come back for more... Believe me, it's over 2 months and I've not smelt their deodorant!
Now, this story could be funny but I will like to use it to drive my points home... It was easy to identify FAKE or NON-PHYSIOS and I will show us how to do it with FAKE MEN.
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HOW DO I ATTRACT A REAL MAN?
1. You need to KNOW who a real man is before he appears. Then, you can go further to talk of attracting him or not. What's your definition of a REAL man? Is it a man who is boxed up? Then, I will tell you that there are countless Boxed up Cheats in town. In fact, sin is easier done when you're in affluence. That was why Jesus said that it will be more difficult for rich people to make heaven.
Is your definition of a REAL man a man who is muscular so that you can find shelter in his arms? A man who every lady calls sexy? Then, I will also tell you that there are many with such muscles built up for physically abusing women!
What is your definition of a REAL man? That's what will determine what you will attract eventually!
A REAL Man is a man who may not be flowing in affluence but is Responsible enough to put his mind and hands to work, save for the future, makes plans for growth and is ready to share what he has with you.
A REAL man is a man who knows WHAT HE WANTS, WHERE he's going and he's taking intentional steps to getting to his destination.
A REAL man is one who respects humanity, including women and can't raise a finger on any woman, no matter who she is.
A REAL man is a man who is on a journey to a destination, tells you about the destination and is ready to pull you along as you embark on the journey. While protecting and defending you in the public, he corrects and grooms you in the private.
Is it possible to see this kind of man? Very affirmative!
Have any or all of these been your perception of a REAL man? If No, then, you have been the problem not the man you've been attracting.
So, first of all REDEFINE A REAL MAN TO YOU!
We shall finish up on the rest of the series Before Valentine's Day!
#Estyposh
This has been the worry of many ladies in our generation because it's as if being real has taken to it heels.
This post has the tendency of being long but stay tuned; you will enjoy it.
=========================
I was in the office one day when two people- a gent and a lady- walked in. I welcomed them. They told me where they were from (another Physio Clinic) and how they've come to help me should in case I have any difficult case, I can refer to them. (Wawu! So, help has finally come to Jerusalem!) So I asked, what kind of conditions do you refer to as 'difficult', to begin with. They were struck with temporary spirit of stuttering. I asked one more question: ARE YOU PHYSIOTHERAPISTS? Then, they clearly replied NO and my education session with them commenced.
I had a client around, so I told them that their time was up. They thanked me and promised to come back for more... Believe me, it's over 2 months and I've not smelt their deodorant!
Now, this story could be funny but I will like to use it to drive my points home... It was easy to identify FAKE or NON-PHYSIOS and I will show us how to do it with FAKE MEN.
==================================
HOW DO I ATTRACT A REAL MAN?
1. You need to KNOW who a real man is before he appears. Then, you can go further to talk of attracting him or not. What's your definition of a REAL man? Is it a man who is boxed up? Then, I will tell you that there are countless Boxed up Cheats in town. In fact, sin is easier done when you're in affluence. That was why Jesus said that it will be more difficult for rich people to make heaven.
Is your definition of a REAL man a man who is muscular so that you can find shelter in his arms? A man who every lady calls sexy? Then, I will also tell you that there are many with such muscles built up for physically abusing women!
What is your definition of a REAL man? That's what will determine what you will attract eventually!
A REAL Man is a man who may not be flowing in affluence but is Responsible enough to put his mind and hands to work, save for the future, makes plans for growth and is ready to share what he has with you.
A REAL man is a man who knows WHAT HE WANTS, WHERE he's going and he's taking intentional steps to getting to his destination.
A REAL man is one who respects humanity, including women and can't raise a finger on any woman, no matter who she is.
A REAL man is a man who is on a journey to a destination, tells you about the destination and is ready to pull you along as you embark on the journey. While protecting and defending you in the public, he corrects and grooms you in the private.
Is it possible to see this kind of man? Very affirmative!
Have any or all of these been your perception of a REAL man? If No, then, you have been the problem not the man you've been attracting.
So, first of all REDEFINE A REAL MAN TO YOU!
We shall finish up on the rest of the series Before Valentine's Day!
#Estyposh
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