"The 'no' you see, or take, as rejection could be the voice of transformation speaking to you to work on yourself.
No may be pointing out to you not to rush things. No could open your eyes to your folly in pursuing things without deep thought. No defines the values and expectations of its sayer and teaches you that you have to work for what you want. No informs you that the road is narrow and you have to be disciplined to get a yes. No is a way to tell you that you cannot have it all in life. No is a way of humbling you to rethink your motives and methods.
No is a testing and filtering technique. No gives you the opportunity to watch and think more before saying yes. No gives you a chance to watch the attitude of people to know whether or not to say yes or when to say yes. No presents opportunities for defining terms when you finally say yes.
No is a long term checker of the viability of people's desires. No helps to build or teach emotional fortitude.
No is articulate and asks questions that reshapes you. No tests your patience and persistence. No informs you to begin the journey of personal development and transformation. No reshapes, reignites and redirects your desires and gives you the energy to try again in a better way. No makes you imaginative and innovative.
No is direct. No defines and clarifies terms. No is a strong wall to protect your weakness. No is a good renegotiation tool. No brings respect and discipline in the way people treat you.
No is seen or taken as rejection by many people but it is informative. Identify and leverage the benefits of no. No makes you serious with your life. "
Chukwukadibia Ude @ckadibia 14/07/2018
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